♥ In The First Of A Remarkably Revealing Two-Part Interview DAYS' Drake Hogestyn Tells... How The Ace Of Diamonds Won - And Lost - His Queen Of Hearts
DAYS OF OUR LIVES star Drake Hogestyn (John) has lived a life of full days - and nights. He played pro baseball in the New York Yankee organization before becoming an actor - in an unusual way. One day, Hogestyn decided to answer a Columbia Pictures newspaper ad requesting a one-hundred-fifty-word essay in which applicants told why they'd be a good actor. He was among just thirty chosen out of seventy-five-thousand to go to Los Angeles for an intensive acting workshop.
Here, the DAYS superstar discusses his past, his present and his hopes for the future with SOAP OPERA NEWS reporter Jeffrey Epstein.
SOAP OPERA NEWS: What's harder, baseball or acting?
Drake Hogestyn: Baseball. You have to be really good - you have to be a cut above. To survive in the pros takes great physical ability. I didn't have the greatest physical tools, but I made up for it with desire and hustle. I'd see athletes who had tremendous talent but wouldn't use it - wouldn't put in the time on the field. If I'd been blessed with those tools, I might have been the first forty-four-year-old in the World Series! The mental aspect of baseball is what separates good players from great ones.
SOAP OPERA NEWS: And acting?
Drake Hogestyn: You can't just take anybody off the street and make them a ballplayer. But you could probably go out on the street with a great big net, scoop up twenty-five people - a lot of people will hate me for saying this - bring them in here and you'd find quite a few who could become actors. I've made analogies between acting and baseball many times. You learn to focus and concentrate, and you practice as you play. You block out the camera crews like you block out the crowd - and give one hundred percent.
SOAP OPERA NEWS: Can you tell the story of how you met your wife, Victoria?
Drake Hogestyn: I was fifteen. She was twelve. It was on a baseball field on the south end of town. I had never played there. I was playing center field against First Federal Bank with their blue and snow uniforms. Down the left field line, I saw two girls on a bike. Victoria was sitting on the handlebars, and I was thinking, "That's so dangerous." I wasn't ready, but Cupid shot his arrow. I looked at her and went, "Baseball? What inning? What's the score?" It was designed to happen, for whatever reason.
They rode away and then they rode back. It was the last inning of the game. There were two outs. They rode right out into the outfield. The umpire yelled, "Stop the game!" I said, "What are you doing?" And she said, "Just wanted to see what you look like." Then they rode off into right field. The ball was hit into right center field. I caught it on the run and started chasing after her. I whistled to my buddy Steve, who was sixteen and had driven me to the game. The bike was riding down the street. I'm running in my spikes - click, click, click - and Steve is in the car behind me as we went in and out of neighborhoods.
The girls pulled up in the front yard of this house, got off the bike and ran inside the house. I ran up and knocked on the door. Obviously, they had run in there and said, "Mom! Some guy chased us home from the park!" Their mom answered the door and said something like, "Don't you ever follow my daughter home again!" and slammed the door. Steve pulls up in the car and went, "Hogey, this is so cool! My uncle lives across the street!" (laughs)
So we went next door and played pool in the basement, keeping an eye on the window. A couple of hours later, the girls left the house with the mom and got in the car. Steve and I followed them back to the ballpark, which was part of a big complex. There was a pool and a water ballet going on. Mom dropped them off and we walked up and sat down next to them. Victoria looked at me, and that was the beginning.
SOAP OPERA NEWS: Sounds like love at first sight!
Drake Hogestyn: I fell in love with her immediately, and there was the little boyfriend/girlfriend thing. I'd wake up at one o'clock in the morning and use my pole-vaulting pole to slide out my second-story window. I'd get on my bike and ride all the way across town, through a bad part of town, just to drop notes in her mailbox. We kept that going until baseball got in the way. It was always in the way, but I'd planned on becoming a dentist. She was going to be in a dental program and we hoped to have a practice together. We had it all planned. I turned down baseball teams like the St. Louis Cardinals. I was going to be a dentist.
When I was fifteen, her mom would let me come over on a Saturday afternoon to watch the television game of the week. That was my time with Victoria. I could sit there. Instead of touching her, Victoria and her mom made me this thing they called a "squishy." It was nothing more than material with the alphabet on it, stuffed with a bunch of laundry bags. I'd go over there and they'd give me the squishy, which was displacement activity from putting my arm around Victoria. Whenever the Yankees would play in the game of the week, I'd tell her, "I'm gonna play for the Yankees one day." She'd go, "Yeah, right."
Senior year of college at the University of South Florida in Tampa, a couple of different doors had opened up. I'd taken my dental board exams. The baseball draft was going on. I wasn't picked in the first two days, so I figured I wasn't going. I wanted to be drafted just from an ego standpoint. Then a reporter from the TAMPA TRIBUNE told me I'd been drafted by the Yankees. Last-round draft pick - but the Yankees! The reason I went to Ft. Lauderdale for junior college was because the Yankees trained there. I used to pester them. I'd say, "Need an extra player?" I wanted to see what it was like to play with pros.
Choosing baseball was one of the major decisions I've made in my life - and it cost me Victoria. She wanted a station wagon and picket fences, but I had to try baseball. I didn't ever want to say, "What if?" It was the biggest heartbreak of my life.
The second biggest was July 4 of that same year. I was with the Oneonta, New York Yankees. I was playing shortstop and went up to bat. Bases loaded. I was hitting the ball really well, and they knew it. So they changed pitchers. They brought in this big guy - he was six-foot-eight. I'd hit against him before and didn't like him. I step up to the plate and hear someone scream, "Hogey!" Time out. I stepped back and saw my Aunt Nancy and Uncle Jack. Then I saw my mom and dad. Dad was supposed to be in Germany as far as I knew. They walked in right when I was up to the plate, facing a guy I hated with bases loaded.
First pitch, I swear - and I hit enough balls to know - I caught it too low on the bat. I threw the bat away in disgust and trotted toward first. But then I realized the ball wasn't coming down! My hands are still ringing from the hit, and this ball goes 440 feet to dead center field and over the scoreboard for a grand-slam home run. Mom and Dad got to see it. First professional game they ever saw me play!
Dad took a bunch of pictures, but didn't have any film in the camera! As I got on the team bus in the parking lot, Mom goes, "I got something from home you might want to see." So I stuffed it in my back pocket and said goodbye. Later, I thought, "Oh, what's that thing in my back pocket?" I pulled out this newspaper article. I see a picture of Victoria. She'd just gotten married.
So here I was embarking on a professional career - a decision I'd made knowing full well it would take me away from the love of my life. My parents got to see me play a great game - and I hadn't had that many! Then to see news like that. You go from the penthouse to the outhouse in a heartbeat.
SOAP OPERA NEWS: In any event, it (Victoria's first marriage) didn't work out! Now you're married and have four wonderful children, Rachael and Ben, from Victoria's previous marriage, and Whitney and Alexandra, your daughters together. What makes a successful marriage?
Drake Hogestyn: In our case, we were friends. We watched each other grow up. My parents tried to keep me away from Victoria. They knew I was in love with her. They thought any second I'd say, "Forget school, forget everything! I'm going to work in the copper factory and we're going to get married." I have to believe there's a greater picture that I don't understand.
SOAP OPERA NEWS: Who in your family watches the show regularly?
Drake Hogestyn: Victoria probably watches it - and not just to see what I'm doing. She's caught up in the storylines just like everyone else. Rachael watches it now in college. She's become very aware of the show's popularity on college campuses. She's called home and said, "My friends yell at the television set." She and her friends in Malibu have always been like, "Oh, yeah, he's on a soap opera." Because they know me, they know it's work. For people who are removed from that, it becomes a huge fantasy and a huge amount of fun. Rachael is starting to tap into that; she talks to me in a different way about the show. I said, "If you want me to tell you what's going on..."
SOAP OPERA NEWS: How's Rachael doing at school (Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore, Maryland)?
Drake Hogestyn: Quite well. The separation was difficult. But maybe the whole reason for Victoria and me to get together again could be because Rachael is going to change the world. She's so intelligent and so with it. She's the girl who stopped eating red meat at age four because she realized: "This is animals." Had Victoria remained in Indiana, Rachael may have never had this opportunity to expand. They're tremendous children and Victoria is the world's best mom. She's there all the time for them - and that's what it takes. They can always trust that she'll be there.
SOAP OPERA NEWS: Was it hard to raise your children in Hollywood?
Drake Hogestyn: I don't bring the show home. I'll do my work with them as they do their homework, so they see it's an ongoing process. If I was an architect or a doctor, I'd still be bringing something home. There's not a picture or an award in the house that deals with acting. Growing up in Fort Wayne, Indiana was Norman Rockwell-esque. I had my paper route at 3:00 AM. I'd walk the neighborhood. You always felt safe. You can't do that anymore. I've got to talk to all my kids at a very young age about individuals who don't have boundaries. I feel like I'm taking away their innocence, but I have to prepare them for what's happening out there. Plus in Malibu, you have the decadence of people who have everything. Kids learn no values from that. They have to have dreams and learn how to work for something. (To be continued next week.)
Jeffrey Epstein, SOAP OPERA NEWS, 12/2/97
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