♥ The Days Of His Life
Except for one hitch, his life could be a soap opera. An all-star Hoosier athlete is drafted by the New York Yankees, the team he idolized as a boy. Then his dreams of a pro baseball career are shattered by a freak injury.
His adolescent sweetheart and senior prom date breaks off their relationship and marries someone else, but she can't help falling back in love when he calls on Valentine's Day. (OOPS! This is wrong. In our opinion it should've been clarified that when Drake graduated from North Side High School, Fort Wayne, Indiana, he didn't attend his senior prom with Victoria. However, several years later when Victoria graduated from South Side High School, Fort Wayne, Indiana, Drake was Victoria's date for HER senior prom.) Meanwhile, the former baseball player and would-be dentist changes his name from Don to Drake, enters a Hollywood talent contest as a joke and becomes a star of daytime television.
Cue the organ, right? Not so fast with the music. Sure, there's melodrama in Drake Hogestyn's journey from Fort Wayne's North Side High School to the set of NBC's DAYS OF OUR LIVES and his designation at the Tenth Annual Soap Opera Awards as "Hottest Male Star." (OOPS! This is wrong. The correct name should be "THE TENTH ANNUAL SOAP OPERA DIGEST AWARDS" not "Tenth Annual Soap Opera Awards.")
The hitch: Hogestyn's life can't compare to the torment endured by his soap character, who has been brainwashed, undergone half a dozen identity changes, suffered false memories, fathered an illegitimate child, been tossed in a dungeon and - stay tuned - returned to his former life as a priest.
"Ever since Drake came on DAYS OF OUR LIVES ten years ago, the show blossomed," said Emmy Peck, an assistant professor of microbiology at Wayne State University in Detroit. Like many of the more than five hundred fans who turned out to videotape, touch, obtain autographs from or chat with Hogestyn during his recent appearance at the Indiana Convention Center, Peck drove several hours to see her favorite television personality. (OOPS! This is wrong. Typo alert! In our opinion it should be "Unlike many of the more than five hundred fans," not "Like many of the more than five hundred fans.")
"What you see with Drake is what you get," Peck explained. She chatted as the darkly handsome, six-foot-one, forty-one-year-old actor greeted admirers with endless patience, handshakes and hugs. "He's genuine," Peck continued. "He's a great actor. He's a hard worker. He's caring and he loves children."
Decked out in a black T-shirt, jeans, a tailored sports jacket and black cowboy boots, Hogestyn grinned, shook his head and explained that he is mystified by the intensity of his fans' devotion. "Honestly, I don't know where it comes from," Hogestyn said during a rare, relaxed moment. "But I'm very appreciative, and I don't take it for granted...I never set out to be an actor, you know."
Donald Drake Hogestyn was the second of four children of Fort Wayne residents Bill and Shug Hogestyn. His father, a native New Yorker, was an executive for Phelps Dodge; his mother a homemaker. Don, as he was known in the Summit City, was a tailback on North Side's football team, but he truly excelled as a third baseman.
A memorable day in the ballpark occurred when he was fifteen. He saw his future wife, twelve-year-old Victoria Post, whiz by on the handlebars of a bicycle steered by her girlfriend. The two made eye contact.
"We were meant to be," Hogestyn said. "I had never even been to that end of town before - I went to North Side High School, and she would go to South Side High. But there I was. Our eyes met, and I was gone." He snapped his fingers, "She 'sent' me just like that...my buddy and I ran after her with our spikes on. I started banging on the door of her house. Her mother finally opened it and said, 'you leave my daughter alone.'"
Hogestyn eventually charmed both his future mother-in-law and Victoria, whom he dated through high school and college.
After winning a baseball scholarship to the University of South Florida in Tampa, he studied microbiology and prepared to become a dentist. Victoria enrolled in a dental hygiene program at Indiana University-Purdue University at Fort Wayne. "We had it all planned," Hogestyn explained. "We would open a dental practice together...but then George Steinbrenner and the Yankees intervened."
Steinbrenner, the controversial Yankees owner, had a shipbuilding operation in Florida. He dropped by to see Hogestyn play ball and was so impressed he made Hogestyn a top draft pick in 1976.
Ecstasy turned to agony when Don phoned Victoria. "I said, 'Honey, I'm heading to Oneonta, New York in two days to play ball,'" he recalled, referring to a Yankees farm program. "Are you ready to go? She said no. 'You left me for four years to get an education. Now you're going to forget about your education and our plans to play baseball somewhere in New York. (OOPS! This is wrong. Typo alert! In our opinion it should be "and our plans in order to play baseball," not "and our plans to play baseball" since we really don't think it was in the Hogestyn's game plan to play baseball together in Oneonta, New York. *snicker*) Forget it.'"
Hogestyn is answering questions from a room jammed with about four hundred fans. Some sport "I Need a Hug" sweatshirts or "Drake Hogestyn Fan Club" buttons. "How does it feel to be the Hottest Male Star on Daytime Television?" asks Suzette Carter, an Indianapolis office manager. She is referring to a designation given to Hogestyn both by SOAP OPERA DIGEST magazine and the Television Soap Opera Awards. (OOPS! This is wrong. During the live telecast for THE TENTH ANNUAL SOAP OPERA DIGEST Awards as well as THE ELEVENTH ANNUAL SOAP OPERA DIGEST Awards, Drake won both times and was crowned SOAP OPERA DIGEST'S "Hottest Male Star," but contrary to what this paragraph says, these awards aren't called the "Television Soap Opera Awards.")
Later, Carter explains she has watched DAYS OF OUR LIVES since she was a teen in the 1960's. Then she enjoyed the show with her mother; now she follows storylines with her daughter. Why is Hogestyn her favorite cast member? "First of all, look at him - he's gorgeous!" Carter replies. "He's also a terrific actor. And Drake is such a likable person. I can't wait to get his autograph."
Lois Henderson, a secretary in Toronto, drove from Canada to enjoy his Indianapolis visit. "It's worth it," she says. "Drake treats everyone the same, whether you are famous or not. He just has a wonderful personality."
An animated storyteller and witty conversationalist, Hogestyn leaps to his feet and points to his cowboy boots to re-enact the mishap that ended his baseball career. A line of spiked shoes was being introduced.
"The manufacturers said, 'We'd like the minor leaguers to test them out,'" he recalled. "They were great, nice and light...but it was pouring rain, and the ballpark was soaking wet."
Distracted by an idiosyncrasy of an opposing pitcher ("he kept gesturing with his tongue"), Hogestyn slipped on the wet surface and seriously injured his big toe. "I couldn't thrust anymore (to throw) because you lean on your toe," he said. "I had the joint replaced. Now it needs to be replaced again, this time with titanium." Strike three for baseball.
Meantime, fellow minor leaguers had convinced Hogestyn to enter an essay and photo in a Columbia Pictures Television Talent Contest. Using his middle name of Drake, Hogestyn wrote an essay with, he recalls, a wisecracking style. Hollywood promptly beckoned.
His first regular role was in SEVEN BRIDES FOR SEVEN BROTHERS (1982-1983), a short-lived but critically praised primetime television series. Hogestyn played sibling number two, with future stars Richard Dean Anderson, Peter Horton and River Phoenix as three of his brothers.
After SEVEN BRIDES FOR SEVEN BROTHERS, Hogestyn competed with Anderson to play the lead in a pilot for a show called GENERATION. "It was being promoted as the hot television series, a futuristic program with action and sports," he recalled. "Rick really wanted to do it because hockey would be involved, and he's an avid player...but I got the part, so Rick had to take MACGYVER as a consolation." MACGYVER ended up a smash hit; GENERATION never evolved beyond the pilot episode.
Meanwhile, Victoria married and had two children. Hogestyn said he had never forgotten her. "Even with baseball and the Columbia Pictures Television contest, I kept thinking 'She is going to have to see me every day on television,' he recalled, laughing. "I thought, 'If I can't marry her, I'm going to haunt her.'"
In 1982, Hogestyn was in Fort Wayne as a hometown celebrity for a charitable appearance. Victoria showed up to see him. He had heard her marriage was failing. Then she called Hogestyn at his California home. "I was so stunned, I don't think I said anything during the whole conversation," he recalled.
But he summoned the courage to call Victoria on Valentine's Day 1983. "I told her, 'I've got some fame, I've got fortune. But something is missing - it's you.'" The two married in 1984. Also that year, Hogestyn was cast in DAYS OF OUR LIVES. (OOPS! This is wrong. Typo alert! Drake and Victoria got married in Redding, Connecticut on New Year's Eve in 1986, not 1984. We'd love it if Drake had joined the DAYS canvas in 1984 because it would mean that we would've been given the enormous pleasure of enjoying two extra years of his extraordinary acting talent. Sadly, this gorgeous man didn't grace our screens until January 1986.)
The Hogestyns live in Malibu with their two daughters (Whitney, nine, and Alexandra, six) and Victoria's children from her first marriage (Rachael, fifteen, and Ben, thirteen). All four have played small roles on DAYS OF OUR LIVES episodes.
"In Indiana, I had the best childhood ever," Hogestyn said. "That's what I want to give my kids."
Nelson Price, THE INDIANAPOLIS NEWS, 5/1/95
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