What Makes This Man Smile?
Drake Hogestyn's DAYS character John Black is facing the possibility that he may be the father of Hope's unborn child. The seriousness of such a situation has not escaped Hogestyn, because in real life, this is a man who is truly passionate about his role as a parent.
"With every year, my family grows more important to me," says Hogestyn who, with his wife Victoria, has three daughters and a son, ranging in ages from eleven to a college senior. "I have such beautiful children. They're very positive and very bright. They love and respect themselves in a very healthy way."
Family Man:
While there's no formula to good parenting, Hogestyn is clear that, "you just have to invest the time." He and his wife have always made sure to have lots of contact with their family. "So many parents put their own social lives or careers ahead of the needs of their children and then can't understand when there's a problem later," he says. "Where have the parents been? If you're not a best friend to your child, you better find out who is."
The actor credits Victoria, a stay-at-home mom, with much of their brood's development. "It's all because of Victoria being there all the time for them. She's instilled them with wonderful self-esteem," he says.
With one daughter, Rachael, in college, and son Ben about to start school at a local university, Hogestyn admits that he's sad his kids are growing up so quickly. "I always liked to have babies in the house." Luckily, he has a few more years left with Whitney, fourteen "and very much a teenager" and Alexandra, eleven.
He enjoys driving his girls to the mall and talking to them about what's important in their lives. He says that they've helped keep him current on movies, music and trends. "I know who the Spice Girls are and the Backstreet Boys and Britney Spears," he reveals with a smile. "In our home, I'm basically the conservative and Victoria is more of the liberal and apt to give the children a chance. I'm the one who more immediately says no."
John's DAYS Future:
While his home life is as stable as you can get, Hogestyn's screen life is drama-packed as John discovers new, DiMera-engineered personalities. Hogestyn says that he's enjoyed the "male action-adventure aspect" of some of John's alter egos, but knows DAYS' writers won't be veering off too far from what's really important: John's relationship with Marlena. "Real soap opera story is about love's trials and tribulations," he says. And now that John may be the father of Hope's baby, "that will be heightened. If her child is John's, it could affect his relationship with Bo...and Hope...and others too." On the other hand, he remains certain that "Marlena will always accept John and help him through whatever problems that he has."
But aside from that, don't ask Hogestyn to give away any plot specifics! "I don't write the show and I have no idea if John is the father to Hope's baby. John and I both will have to wait to find out."
So it's a good thing that Hogestyn is as excited as any DAYS fan to see what will come next. "After almost fifteen years, I still look forward to getting up in the morning and coming to work," he says. "When scripts are pushed under my door, I'm curious to see what's happening."
In fact, he's more content than ever with his life. "I work and take great pride in what I do. It's very professionally and emotionally fulfilling. Then I get to go home to something even greater. I'm very lucky."
Lorraine Zenka, SOAP OPERA UPDATE, 5/9/00
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